To become a father, learn to be a son of your Heavenly Father
You can start by seeing this video on leading as a husband:
Brotherhood is where a man grows in courage and strength alongside brothers in competition and collaboration. https://pathofmanliness.substack.com/p/adrift-without-anchors
Learning to be a son entails humility, contribution and learning identity. https://pathofmanliness.substack.com/p/the-father-i-couldnt-see https://pathofmanliness.substack.com/p/honour-your-father-and-your-mother https://pathofmanliness.substack.com/p/the-death-of-the-patriarchs-bearing